There is nothing that I can do to prevent heartbreak in your life. It is inevitable.  It is going to happen one day. And as painful as it may be, this is how we learn, my darling girl. As you grow from these hard life lessons, I sincerely hope and pray that you will one day find a man who cherishes you. Someone who pursues you in every way, shape and form.

Find a man who is dependable; one you can trust as sure as the sun rises in the east and sets in the west. Someone who fights for you and undoubtedly believes you are the most amazing woman he has ever laid his eyes on. Find a man who will always love you like it’s the beginning and who will always find you in a crowded room.

Find a man who craves your presence and whose body physically aches to be around you. Find a man who you develop a deep connection with. A connection so deep, so strong, and so intoxicating, that you doubt if you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Find a man who sees you in the sun, the moon, and the stars. Someone who never lets you fall asleep without his arms wrapped around your body, making you feel safer than you have ever felt. Find a man who genuinely makes you laugh…that  good, hardy, infectious laugh of yours.

Find him, sweet girl. Find him and feel yourself fall. ..and when you do, never let him go. This is the man you need and deserve.  They say that love is hard. I am here to tell you that’s a lie.  It’s not hard, baby girl. It is the easiest and most blisfful thing in the world, when you have the right person by your side. Never forget that you are worthy of a love like this. And with every fiber of my being, I hope you settle for absolutely nothing less than this man. 


Love, Your Mama Bear